Wednesday, July 20, 2016

The F* Word

Fat – a macronutrient required for our body to function properly.  NOT a descriptive word for an individual struggling with weight or unable to attain standard set by society for weight.

Skinny – a word used to describe thickness of an object or amount provided, such as skinny profits or skinny room.  NOT a goal to be desired in society pertaining to size of the body.

Diet – food and beverages consumed on a daily basis.  NOT a word indicative of restriction from food, temporary elimination of specific food group or a word used to describe a required pattern for weight loss.

I hate the F*, S* and D* words.  Society construes such words described above, placing negative emphasis on each.  I correct my children whenever any of these words appear incorrectly in sentences.  Society likes to create a standard (which BTW is made by imperfect people), list specific details on steps to reach such standard, condemn others failing to fit in such a mold and then blast all of this over social media.  Who does society think they are?

Recently the fam and I visited a pool for the afternoon.  I, being the one fearing water, usually sit to the side and watch.  I overheard a conversation taking place with what appeared to be 13 or 14-year-old girls.  One exclaimed that she was too “fat.”  Ears perked as I heard the F* word.  She proceeded to explain that daily another one of the girls in the group told her she was “fat”.  Really?  Who appointed this girl to set the standard of healthy and acceptable!  My heart broke.  I wanted to take that young girl to the side and emphasize how beautiful, wonderful and gloriously she was created. 



What is wrong with society?  I know, loaded question!  Healthy comes in all shapes and sizes.  Beauty lies in our Creator.  Happiness dwells inwardly.  The madness must stop as we build the next generation to love, appreciate and care properly for the body given. 

As a nutrition counselor, nurse and mother, I know that weight does play a role in health.  But, healthy appears differently in each individual.  A set number cannot determine healthy status universally.  There is a time a place to lose weight or gain weight to reach optimal health.  There is a time to monitor food intake and pay close attention to portion size in order to relearn proper nutrition intake.  There is a time to focus solely on food in order to gain a healthy relationship with such vital nutrients required for life.  Food is not the enemy.  Food is simply nutrition created to sustain life.  Choosing the best foods for what the body needs in that moment is key.  Listen to your body and it will let you know the nutrients required.

Fat, skinny and diet construed over the years contribute to health concerns of all individuals.  Fat is needed daily.  Skinny does not equal healthy.  Diet describes the foods chosen on a daily basis.  You are provided one body to be a vessel for the Holy Spirit to work mightily here on Earth.  Treat your vessel as a temple, created for God, used by God and loved by God.  If struggling with image, weight, pressure of society, etc., look no further than God’s Truth. . .

Psalm 139; 1 Corinthians 6:12-20; Romans 12 and more.

RANT OVER.








Live life. . .One Day at a Time
Sheree Craig   


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