Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Eternal Vision

Thank you
Gracias
Merci 
Grazie
Arigato 
Danke sehr
daw-dyeh



No matter the spelling or pronunciation, the emotion remains the same.  Thanks: to express gratitude, acknowledgement of receiving item or favor, appreciation for service or gift, feeling emotion positively toward another, etc.  In my opinion, the meaning/passion behind such word diminished over the years.  Saying “Thank you” to another now comes out freely in a habitual manner. 

If I gained a dollar each time I prompted the children to say thank you, I would possess quite the savings account.  Mothers all over the universe teach children to appreciate items received, favors shown and services done.  The word “Thank you”, in all its languages, is woven into the fiber of all children.  Victory comes for a mother on the day a child says “Thank you” without prompt.  But, does the child understand the meaning behind such a word?  Or, is it carelessly thrown around simply out of taught habit?  If not careful, such words like thank you, I love you, please, etc. become habits, losing the important meaning/emotion behind them.        

The time of year appears before us with the infamous question lurking over thousands of dinner tables: “What are you most thankful for in this life?”  Many spout off answers quickly in order to dive into the delicious food set before them.  Others passionately describe deep hearted thankfulness.  While some cannot even think of reason to be thankful. 

Answers vary from health, wealth and possessions to people, foods and memories.  Most every answer points to worldly items.  I am just as guilty as the next to focus on items given here on Earth.  It shows the mental focus of the here and now.  But should our eyes focus on all this stuff?  Will this stuff matter in the end? 

I present a challenge this holiday season. . .let us be thankful for Eternity, not temporary.  I will begin to answer such in depth question (and I would love to hear back from you). . .

What are you most thankful for which impacts Eternity?

My past: As ugly as it seems, as judgmental as one could be looking at all the decisions I have made, as shameful as it appears. . .my past created such strength, faith and gratitude I possess today.

Broken relationships: Sitting next to or facing a loved one that broke my heart into a million pieces can cause difficulty finding thanks. . .but, such relationships created a heart of forgiveness and the tiniest glimpse of the forgiveness put forth for the sin of man.

Maternal duties: Lack of ability, strength, knowledge or understanding to fulfill such a role can open the door wide for the devil. . .he loses when God reveals purpose in providing me such the title of ‘mom’.

Being a teammate to a wonderful man: Arguments, disapproval, daily stress and misunderstanding can fog the goal intended for our marriage. . .yet, God remaining the center in our home, always comes through in a mighty way to get us back on course. 

Now, don’t get me wrong, I am thankful for Starbuck’s, Hallmark movies, snow days, health, love and many other things experienced daily.  But, the deep hearted thankfulness must be remembered daily in order to stand strong through the storms of this life.  It is temporary, but God is Eternal.  Focus on what He has planned, the hope in Heaven and the purpose of it all and overwhelming peace reveals daily.  No matter the circumstances, He is there and will forever be with you. 

We will all face those at the Thanksgiving table which blind us from an Eternal outlook.  Stay strong and understand that we ALL were created in His image and for a purpose.  Unfortunately, some have no understanding of such precious gift given freely to us through Jesus Christ.  More reason we must keep focus on Eternal rather than temporary.  Set the example, shine Jesus at your Thanksgiving table. 


Live life. . .One Day at a time! 

Sheree Craig    

Friday, November 11, 2016

This Day I Married My Best Friend. . .

Eleven years ago. . .4,015 days have passed. . .96,360 hours ticked on. . .

. . .since two lives became one.  One young, immature, naïve to the world girl committed to a stunning, intelligent, young man.  These two hold quite the back story, revealing the power of God.  See, just years prior to saying “I do”, these young souls fell head over heels for one another.  It took one glance her way and he melted this young girl’s heart.  Conversation after conversation strengthened the hold he gained on her life.  Love grew, memories created and time stood still!

Then, the inevitable happened!  A breakup.  Not your typical ‘see you later because I just don’t think this is working breakup’. . .this was a hard breakup.  Distance killed the bond.  Illness blinded the young girl’s rationale thinking.  Two happy souls slowly faded and hearts hardened.

There were relationships along the way; but, each paled in comparison to the love once felt.  Hardships developed, wounds left to infect.  Sadness tainted hope.  Years passed; yet, neither forgot the love shared.

As the two lost souls walked step by step through each day, it was clear Someone needed to intervene.  And intervene He did.  One day rock bottom came for both and something urged a letter to be written.  Both listened and two letters were written that day.  As each received the other’s at the same time; hope reentered the scene.

Reunited, the flames went sky high instantly.  The young girl fell in love all over; but, this time the love split between two amazing guys!  I met my Brayson September 11, 2004.  With one look, my heart melted and I knew this was forever for the three of us.




Great love story!  Makes for a great Hallmark movie.  But, just like all the Hallmark movies, the difficult times remain in the ‘blooper’ files.  Marriage is far from easy.  Parenting throws wedges daily between couples.  It is through the hard times, growing moments and decision making that love strengthens.  The enemy loses footing as God remains the center of the home.

Now, we did not have all aligned prior to committing to a life together.  Just saying ‘I do’ did not guarantee God to reign over the relationship.  Yes, I fully believe God’s Hands brought us together, holding on to us tightly; but, we were blind.  It took five years of messiness to finally realize the missing piece.  The wedge grew so wide, that again we found ourselves at rock bottom.  Thankfully, God stood strong, picked us both up and held our hands, connecting our hearts again.  We learned how Two become One as He intended.

I would like to share a few points I have learned thus far in eleven years as Mrs. Craig.
- Never miss a date night – after all, when the kids are grown and gone, it will be you and your spouse to love, cherish, laugh and live together (in peace and quiet).
- Remain as a team – come to compromise.  Throw away the ‘me box’ and avoid any chance of foothold for the enemy to drive apart you and your spouse.
- Don’t sweat the small stuff – really, it is not worth putting up a fight over every little thing that does not go your way.  God put two together knowing each were made to complement one another.  Go with the other’s idea and you may find it works ten times better.
- Encourage one another daily – via simple text, email, phone call, hug, kiss or prayer.  Whatever the line of communication, just do it!
- WARNING – this one is R rated – make love!  This is a bonding that no other in the world shares with you.  Enjoy this time together, put it on the calendar, call in a babysitter, put the kids down with a movie early, etc.  Do whatever you need to do to have alone time.
- Focus on the other’s happiness – that’s right!  Turn away from selfish gain and focus on what makes your spouse happy.  So, maybe you don’t like watching yet another sports game on TV. . .suck it up, sit down and engage in conversation over what is happening.  So, maybe you can’t take another drawn out love story on Hallmark channel. . .get over it and embrace your spouse while enjoying a well written script.
- Above all – Love One Another as God has loved you!

 

Live life. . .One Day at a time!
Sheree Craig