Let’s approach
the second question I proposed in the last post. . .Did you offer open time in
the schedule to breathe, relax and debrief the day with a loved one?
STRESS – in all forms wreaks havoc on
the body.
Physical stress
can be felt, seen and cause chaos. Sweat
pours from places you never knew sweat glands existed. Heart races, pounding louder than ever
before. Speech suffers and the mind fogs
over. Our body deals with a stressful
moment in such a manner, providing a warning sign that screams GET OUT
NOW!
Emotional
stress can be felt, cause chaos, BUT cannot always be seen outwardly. We grab a shovel, dig a hole in our heart and
bury this stress deep down. Refusing to
feel and process such stress leads to festering. What in the world is festering? Webster describes the word as becoming
septic. So, what do you think happens
when the stress buried deep inside our heart becomes septic? Who do you think suffers the greatest at this
point?
Environmental
stress, unbeknownst to us, wreaks havoc on our system as well. The body battles to reach equilibrium each
day as it faces such stress. Toxins
through beauty and hygiene products, foods eaten and air breathed can bring in
such stress on the body. How can we
overcome such stress? Isn’t there some
kind of magic pill? We could live in a
bubble filled with purified air, right?
Well, my
friends, the fact of the matter remains that the body encounters trials and
tribulations in various forms daily. We
cannot avoid them. . .BUT, we can process and deal with them in a healthy
manner. Replace all the frustration,
chaos, anger, bitterness, toxins and imbalance with peace. Easier said than done, right?
What if I told
you I have one prescription to fit every individual’s need daily? What if I told you I know the secret to freedom? Would you try it for me? If followed daily, the prescription will have
side effects. The side effects include
optimal health, calming emotion, lower heartrate, joy, peace, comfort and laughter. Are you on board yet?
The prescription: Find YOUR Oasis. An oasis involves a resting place. An oasis is void of media, electronics, loud
noise, bright lights and demands. Thirty
minutes a day in your oasis will reap benefits.
Whether it be a hot bath, the scent of lavender surrounding and a good
book or a run in the park. Whether it be
sitting in a dark room taking calm, deep breaths or hitting the basketball
court for some hoops. We all have that
place. . .GO THERE!
If you have
little kids, you need to take 2 doses of this script on a daily basis. Take turns with someone so they can keep the
kids occupied for thirty minutes. Take
advantage of naptime and leave the housework to the side. Your health is more important than a spotless
house or clean clothes. Trust me, I
learned the hard way. I ran myself
ragged and had nothing to show but a stressed out mom who took it out on
everyone in sight.
I learned to
find my oasis daily. It brings joy,
refreshment to the soul and laughter back in my life. My oasis changes depending on the mood and
day I faced. Sometimes it is the hot
bath; while other times it is taking a run.
And yet, other times it is plopping down on the couch to watch a comical
show or a good movie.
Put it on the
schedule or it will not happen. Take the
calendar out. . .go ahead, go get your calendar! Write down oasis at the time you know will
work for your day. Breathe, relax and
debrief the day! You won’t regret. Avoid becoming septic.
Reaching
optimal health. . .One Day at a Time
Sheree Craig